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Why I Call You Gay Constantly
Hey There Gay Dudes,
Another one of Fin's totally unsexy articles is here for your unviewing pleasure!
This week's talk is about why I think its important that you are called a gay faggot gueermo to your face... and not listen to the politically correct police on how gay men should behave to each other at all!
Okay. First of all... a confession.
I learned this one directly... from others... like verbatim.
I didn't discover it myself at all... like some of these other articles.
This one... the truths come from others directly.
One interesting thing about being a minority... is that you might not like being one... and us gays certaintly aren't the first to discover that.
So I believe it was around the 1960-70s when those in the African American community were trying to organize their own into a far more effective united population... that they rediscovered this fact as well.
They NEEDED their own to commit to their community.... when such was a community that could be easily diswanted as one's own... because it was a disliked minority.
Sound like the gays? Because it should.
Well one tactic taken to solve that.... was to label their comrades... as their community... unavoidably.
Unmistakeably.
Directly.
So that no one of their own... could run from it. ever.
"Hey There Other Black Guy!" was used in near infinite combinations to confront, lasso in, and create a shared identity and strong community.
"It's fine to be black. We are all black. You are one of us and belong," is however the literal translation of whatever specific wordage is contained in that phrase.
So when I call you "Gay Dudes... or Queerboys... or.... Mutant Retards.." know what I am actually saying is....
"It's fine to be gay. We are all gay. You are one of us and belong."
Very directly and specifically actually.
Because I strongly believe that a lot of you out there do NOT want to be gay!
Just like a lot of those in other minority communities have felt before as well.
But just like them however... you will not be able to change that. Ever.
What you can however do.... is change your feelings about the word "Gay" itself... .. and the negative associations it brings to you!
Really and truly...in case you haven't already done it to yourself yet and feel like you need it...
Gay.... now OFFICIALLY... is is NO REAL WAY related to rainbows, theatre, fainting... or feel good singalongs!
Gay... now OFFICIALLY... is associated for you instead with sword fighting, jet skiing, beer... and strength!
And it is just as easy to do as believing in it yourself... (and knowing a few others that fit that definition as well!)
So that's why I call you gay!
So you can hear a friend call you it directly... so you can change whatever negative associations the world has previously created on it... and have it mean to you whatever you want it to be.
So anyways? Why is gay associated with pastel dandies anyways?
Gay guy... I'm going to take a safe guess here... and say the style of gay you are can be determined by the pornography you choose to look at. This website is fairly hardcore actually... indicating that most likely you have gay soul closer to that of... Shirley Manson... rather than that of Taylor Swift.
Which then means... you yourself are someone who is not the keenest... on all that rainbow glitter associations being gay has brought into your life.
Well the blunt truth is that the current gay community was first created by the combination of these two features.
The Brave
Those Who Could Not Hide Their Freak Status In Any Way
And when another word for "brave" throughout history has been "stupid"... and "those who could not hide" were so gender mutated that they did not have a choice...
...you can begin to see why daffodils and daisies were first associated with our kind... still to this day.
And because of the fact that we as a minority are naturally "invisible"... means that those who choose to make themselves known by sight... literally create a bias sample to any observing crowd... by creating an overestimation of our effete behavior.
Oh well. Every minority has its unique situations to deal with.
It is not really to target these data skewers directly though... but instead start to address the real issue.
That intelligent gays hide.
And they hide with all their intelligence.
They will far easier mimic the behavior of their peers... and blend in so well... they often are confronted with the choice of NEVER coming out.
A life path... their less witty bretheren were never even close to offered....
So intelligent gay dude on this website.... know that if you have a problem with the associations that have been created with the word "Gay"... know you can NOT complain about it... unless you are OUT and taking a stand... to show others the real definition of the word "Gay!" Sexy sword fighting coolness!
And now finally... a few last comments on word associations... and the huge role they play in our societies near constant miscommunication.
The truth is we all can use the same words.... but still be hearing very different things entirely.
When I say "The Straights"..
...the heterosexuals viewing this literally negatively see this.
Or this.
When in our gay brains.... "straight" is actually associated with....
...the majority...
...the healthy...
...the "perfect life" blessed...
...those that walk in the sun...
...the cast of Sean Cody...
And the fact that there is ANY at all difference... can show you why wars are fought still!
So... while you queerbros can use the word "Boi" for a 40 year old barfly in a mid life crisis...
...know that the straights at the table nearby think you are talking about an 8 year old.
And while that word association is their fault however....
You still however will have to deal with it!
So as you change the definition of the word "Gay" for yourselves to now mean this guy!
Be aware... that ALL the words you use are subject to the listener at 100%.
A very frightening fact indeed!
Thank you!
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